2) Describe who you might submit to and how. Are you submissive only in the context of a scene or in a role or throughout your daily life? Are you submissive to play partners or only in the context of a relationship?
I will ONLY fully submit to my One. He has earned my submission because of who we are to each other. I cannot fully submit unless I trust the individual to whom I am submitting with my life. It is easy to say you trust someone with your life. It is quite another to prove it in practice.
I am submissive to my One daily. Though we do not live together, I have commands that I carry out on a daily basis. Additionally, I behave with honor and respect mindful that my actions reflect on Him as His actions reflect on me. So too, our behaviors as a unit reflect on the poly group as a whole.
I only play with those I love. I cannot do what I do with dignity in the absence of love. This also goes back to “who would you submit to”. I will not submit unless I know I will be cared for in my submission. I personally do not believe it is possible to “submit” to a play partner – bottom, yes – submit in the true sense of the word, no.