5) Have you been or are you in a dominant/submissive dynamic relationship or is this new to you? Have you been in more than one D/s relationship? How were they the same? How were they different? What is unique about your relationships in your mind?
It’s pretty clear that I’m in a D/s type relationship. I have been in two.
They are so dissimilar it is difficult to find any common ground between the two. Perhaps the only similarity is that in both I have been the s-type. The differences are night and day. In one, I had to lead, in the other I happily follow. In one I had been pushing, seemingly all the time. In the other I am being pushed. In one I felt that I was the only interested party. There was no forward momentum unless I instigated it. In the other, We work together to move the relationship and play forward. We grow closer more rapidly because We do this as a unit. We are well matched in nearly every way.
This relationship I have now is remarkable in so many ways. We are undoubtedly the exception. The way We met. The fact that We met at all, let alone that Our story continued. The strong need for the proclivities we share, that most of the community shies away from. Not just that we share play desires but that we also have so much to talk about. So many things had to happen “just right” for Us to be together. I could go on but I won’t. We are fortunate. There is nothing more to be said.