8) Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not?
Some of this was addressed in #7 so I will handle this a bit differently than if it were a newly presented concept.
I find it amusing that spanking is often equated with punishment. Does spanking hurt? Yes, most of the time. Is it punishment? Well, let’s have a look at that, shall we? Is punishment supposed to be something one looks forward to? Is punishment supposed to be desirable? Is punishment supposed to be arousing? I’m guessing the answer to these (for most people) is “no”. I know that is the case for me.
There is no other impact play that has the intimacy of an OTK spanking. Laying across His lap, secured with one hand and spanked, with great care and attention to detail, with the other – there is nothing like it. It is so far removed from punishment as to make that thought laughable. Is spanking part of my submission? You betcha. Is it punishment? Not even maybe. Bring. It. On.